I found out my fiance went to a stripclub w/ friends. I'm kinda hurt. Is this cheating

caitdh1 on December 10, 2009, 7:04 pm

No its not cheating but they should have told you first

StarAngel on December 10, 2009, 7:26 pm

Maybe he's just trying to be one of the lads?

punched on December 10, 2009, 7:48 pm

Not cheating. Especially if he went with friends.

magickfingers on December 10, 2009, 9:16 pm

Yea if he was shady about it but if he told you I don't think so

WiseOne on December 11, 2009, 12:29 am

It's not cheating but I would feel hurt too, if he didn't tell me. Maybe trust issues?

wilsonsm on December 11, 2009, 12:29 am

Nooooooo.

kevin on December 11, 2009, 12:30 am

If he told you where he was going, would you have thrown a fit! That's why he didn't tell you

kelbat on December 11, 2009, 4:36 am

Not cheating...hell, I go with my husband. I am SO not the jealous type at all though...

unknown on December 11, 2009, 3:26 pm

it's cheating if you both understand each others expectations and he violates them anyway.

golem on December 13, 2009, 9:38 pm

Why, exactly, are you upset?

golem on December 13, 2009, 9:42 pm